Shannon L. Alder Quotes In English

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Shannon L. Alder Quotes In English

Hello, Welcome in a collection of quotes and thoughts by Shannon L. Alder on horror, writing, fantasy, suspense, sci-fi, magic, books, reading, life, humor, God, religion and freedom. Our team gives you some quotes about Shannon L. Alder. Shannon L. Alder is an inspirational author. Her tidbits of wisdom have been published in over 100 different books, by various relationship authors and in several online magazine articles (Psychology Today, Huffington Post, etc.).

  • “Sensitive people usually love deeply and hate deeply. They don’t know any other way to live than by extremes because thier emotional theromastat is broken.”

  • Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.”

  • “If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”

  • “True regret is knowing you missed your only opportunity to be simply a good friend to someone that was exactly like you.”

  • “When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval. Putting a voice to your soul helps you to let go of the negative energy of fear and regret.”

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  • “Swearing doesn’t make your argument valid; it just tells the other person you have lost your class and control.”

  • “Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.”

  • “Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.”

  • “Never give up on someone with a mental illness. When “I” is replaced by “We”, illness becomes wellness.”

  • “A best friend is the only one that walks into your life when the world has walked out.”

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  • “The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an option in theirs.”

  • “You will never find the real truth among people that are insecure or have egos to protect. Truth over time becomes either guarded or twisted as their perspective changes; it changes with the seasons of their shame, love, hope or pride.”

  • “When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.”

  • “The battle you are going through is not fueled by the words or actions of others; it is fueled by the mind that gives it importance.”

  • “Staying silent is like a slow growing cancer to the soul and a trait of a true coward. There is nothing intelligent about not standing up for yourself. You may not win every battle. However, everyone will at least know what you stood for—YOU.”

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  • “If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”

  • “There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”

  • “Your perspective on life comes from the cage you were held captive in.”

  • “Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.”

  • “A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you’re in love with. A confident and spiritual woman knows that “moving on” doesn’t mean you never loved someone. She realizes that letting go is what God needs her to do because both your happiness and hers requires taking different journeys for spiritual growth. Letting go is sometimes the hardest thing, but it is the most “real love” you will ever experience.”

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  • “You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.”

  • “The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.”

  • “People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray them the most.”

  • “Most misunderstandings in the world could be avoided if people would simply take the time to ask, “What else could this mean?”

  • “When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”

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  • “Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”

  • “Sometimes your light shines so bright that it blinds people from seeing who you really are.”

  • “The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn’t being said. The art of reading between the lines is a life long quest of the wise.”

  • “One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.”

  • “A coward talks to everyone but YOU.”

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  • “Accomplishments don’t erase shame, hatred, cruelty, silence, ignorance, discrimination, low self-esteem or immorality. It covers it up, with a creative version of pride and ego. Only restitution, forgiving yourself and others, compassion, repentance and living with dignity will ever erase the past.”

  • “Betrayal is an ironic thing. He or she betrays you then you betray yourself. You think you’re showing strength with your anger, but in reality you’re showing how much you still care.”

  • “I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”

  • “If you’re going to love someone or something then don’t be a slow leaking faucet—-be a hurricane.”

  • “There is no perfection, only beautiful versions of brokenness.”

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  • “The moon will guide you through the night with her brightness, but she will always dwell in the darkness, in order to be seen.”

  • “The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.”

  • “Your dignity can be mocked, abused, compromised, toyed with, lowered and even badmouthed, but it can never be taken from you. You have the power today to reset your boundaries, restore your image, start fresh with renewed values and rebuild what has happened to you in the past.”

  • “You know your testimony is strong when your roots are so deep that other people’s storms will never knock you over.”

  • “Insanity is everyone expecting you not to fall apart when you find out everything you believed in was a lie.”

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  • “The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.”

  • “The most intriguing people you will encounter in this life are the people who had insights about you, that you didn’t know about yourself.”

  • “Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.”

  • “Cruel people offer pity when they no longer feel threatened. However, kind people offer compassion and understanding regardless.”

  • “Beauty is not who you are on the outside, it is the wisdom and time you gave away to save another struggling soul like you.”

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  • “When a person is punished for their honesty they begin to learn to lie.”

  • “Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.”

  • “Never give up on someone. Sometimes the answers you are looking for are the same answers another person is looking for. Two people searching together are always better than one person alone.”

  • “Feelings are something you have; not something you are.”

  • “The lesson will always repeat itself, unless you see yourself as the problem–not others.”

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  • “Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go. However, your peace is measured by how long you don’t look back.”

  • “Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.”

  • “Never fall in love with someone that won’t fight for you because when the real battles begin they won’t pull your heart to safety, but they will their own.”

  • “After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If you have love for yourself and others, you won’t need it.”

  • “The wise do not buy into other people’s perceptions of who they are and what they are capable of. Instead, they bypass a person’s public persona and see who they are in their highest expression. When you see actions taken with integrity, instead of words only, you will then know a soul’s worth.”

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  • “Before you call yourself a Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu or any other theology, learn to be human first.”

  • “The problem with people that ignore people they dislike is they can’t ignore them. Anger carries a person in your mind forever, whether you choose to speak to them or not. Therefore, don’t mistake prosperity or accomplishments as resolution. You can’t escape what you will not deal with. The day you can stand in the room with someone and not be affected is the day you truly moved on.”

  • “One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.”

  • “The important thing isn’t what other people think you are; it’s who you are.”

  • “When you stop living your life based on what others think of you real life begins. At that moment, you will finally see the door of self acceptance opened.”

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  • “Fear is the glue that keeps you stuck. Faith is the solvent that sets you free.”

  • “When relationships fail it is usually because someone chooses not to show up for the battle.”

  • “Personality begins where comparison leaves off. Be unique. Be memorable. Be confident. Be proud.”

  • “Often romantic relationships fail because you are trying to get someone to fall in love with the YOU that you never discovered.”

  • “Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete with you, bad mouth you to others or react to anything you do or say is when they give themselves away. You can either be saddened or flattered that you effected someone so much. The perspective is yours to determine.”

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  • “Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.”

  • “People who fit don’t seek. The seekers are those that don’t fit.”

  • “Being kind to someone, only to look kind to others, defeats the purpose of being kind.”

  • “If you want to discover the true character of a person, you have only to observe what they are passionate about.”

  • “Be leery of silence. It doesn’t mean you won the argument. Often, people are just busy reloading their guns.”

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  • “The only real conflict you will ever have in your life won’t be with others, but with yourself.”

  • “Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth.”

  • “If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.”

  • “Some of the most beautiful things worth having in your life come wrapped in a crown of thorns.”

  • “Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.”

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  • “Confidence is knowing who you are and not changing it a bit because of someone’s version of reality is not your reality.”

  • “Your attachment to unhealthy people and bad habits, which offer you no real control, is why you’re spiritually dying and living a life out of balance.”

  • “Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won’t spend more than five minutes listening to your journey because they are more concerned about their own well being, rather than being a true disciple of Christ. Blessed is the person that takes the time to heal and hear another person so they can move on.”

  • “I am not the moon orbiting around your planet; I am the sun that will burn through your frozen mind.”

  • “If you go looking for love you won’t find it because love is never lost; only we are lost.”

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  • “Sensitive people care when the world doesn’t because we understand waiting to be rescued and no one shows up. We have rescued ourselves, so many times that we have become self taught in the art of compassion for those forgotten.”

  • “I rather spend every Sunday of my life hanging off a cliff to rescue someone than spend one more time sitting in a pew next to hypocrites that talk about what they will do to better themselves and the world when they get around to it.”

  • “An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, “Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reaction to what I am doing, but you’re not cool enough to be my friend. Therefore, I will just pray you see this because the approval of God is not all I need.”

  • “True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand you because of their own ego, fear and lack of spirituality. What’s sadder is when they are Christian.”

  • “To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.”

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  • “The way you think about yourself determines your reality. You are not being hurt by the way people think about you. Many of those people are a reflection of how you think about yourself.”

  • “When you look at the past without God’s eyes, you subject yourself to deception. The past no longer exists and God doesn’t linger there. However, Satan will show you whatever you want to see and believe, so you will be trapped in an emotion that cannot communicate truth, beyond what you want to remember.”

  • “Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.”

  • “A heart worth loving is one you understand, even in silence.”

  • “Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.”

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  • “Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.”

  • “If you were born with the ability to change someone’s perspective or emotions, never waste that gift. It is one of the most powerful gifts God can give—the ability to influence.”

  • “When you judge other people without wanting to know the true story behind their actions, is usually when there is something inside of you that is so broken that if you found out what you believed about them was a lie, you wouldn’t want to accept it or make amends.”

  • “A deceitful man will go as far as to trample all over a woman’s reputation and spirit, in order to prove to his ex-love that he was faithful. The irony, is he is still in love with his ex and the new woman in his life doesn’t even realize it.”

  • “When dealing with critics always remember this: Critics judge things based on what is outside of their content of understanding.”

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  • “Never give a person a piece of your mind when all you really wanted to do was give them a piece of your heart.”

  • “Never pray to be a better slave when God is trying to get you out of your situation.”

  • “It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly, It takes a warrior to show them how to change the world.”

  • “Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another: Why can’t you see who I truly am?”

  • “Relationships with negative people are simply tedious encounters with porcupines. You don’t have the remote knowledge how to be close to them without quills being shot in your direction.”

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  • “It is better to stay single and wait for the one that makes sense then to marry someone that makes absolutely no sense. The moment you settle is when the one person that makes all the sense in the world shows up and Satan sits back and enjoys your spiritual meltdown.”

  • “Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.”

  • “Don’t ever stray from yourself, in order to be close to someone that doesn’t have the courtesy to remind you of your worth, or the integrity of a gentleman to walk you home.”

  • “One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many people don’t want you to have it. You have to find the courage to seize it, own it and hold on!”

  • “If you don’t find the right set of eyes to see through your bull, you will always be surrounded by friends that will tell you white lies because they like your company and don’t want to ruin the evening.”

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  • “Blessed are those with cracks in their broken heart because that is how the light gets in.”

  • “When the person you love can’t see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember this: Love is blind.”

  • “When someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.”

  • “Words don’t have the power to hurt you, unless that person meant more to you than you are willing to confess.”

  • “People that have been consistently hurt by others in life will only see the one time you hurt them and be blinded to all the good your heart has to offer. They look no further than what they want to see. Unfortunately, most of them remain a victim throughout their life.

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  • “He who is not everyday conquering some fear has not learned the secret of life.”

  • “You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be the one. If you can wrap yourself around the idea that you are something incredible, then you will stop excusing behavior that rapes your very soul. You were never meant to teach someone to love you. You were meant to be loved.”

  • “It is easier to tell a person what life is not, rather than to tell them what it is. A child understands weeds that grow from lack of attention, in a garden. However, it is hard to explain the wild flowers that one gardener calls weeds, and another considers beautiful ground cover.”

  • “Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never settle for someone that didn’t know your worth from the beginning, or build a life without God in it. Live beyond your low expectations.”

  • “All great beginnings start in the dark, when the moon greets you to a new day at midnight.”

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  • “I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.”

  • “No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.”

  • “The number of chances you give someone doesn’t tell the world how loving you are without telling them how desperate you are to believe they care as much as you. True love resides in the first chance, stupidity in the second, opportunists in the third and scoundrels in the fourth.”

  • “Two people with mental issues in a relationship does not work. It’s like sitting in a boat and neither one has an oar to row the other to shore. You can meet your mirror image in life, but that doesn’t mean you should marry him.”

  • “Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes.”

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  • “Sometimes you can be touched by God, but not healed. Often when this happens, he is using your pain for a greater purpose.”

  • “When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.”

  • “God always brings someone into your life that has traveled the same path and knows the rocks you climbed to get to the end of the trail.”

  • “Stupidity is to have amnesia over your own faults when the person you hate makes theirs.”

  • “God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story will rescue others. He has always been a God of rescues and a maker of warriors for his grace. You only need to believe that you are part of something greater than you know.”

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  • “Never let your fear of the unknown and things being too difficult make your choices for you in life. One of the saddest lessons in life is finding out that your fear made the situation worse than what it was and a braver person stole the dream you gave up on.”

  • “Blessed is a mother that would give up part of her soul for her children’s happiness.”

  • “People seldom change. Only their masks do. It is only our perception of them and the perception they have of themselves that actually change.”

  • “When you lose your ego, you win. It really is that simple.”

  • “Never annoy an inspirational author or you will become the poison in her pen and the villian in every one of her books.”

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  • “There is nothing more entertaining then leaving someone speechless. Yet, there is nothing sadder than realizing that person was incapable of retaining half of what you said, and will repeat the story all wrong to someone else.”

  • “The daggers of silence last longer than anything ever spoken.”

  • “When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want.”

  • “You can change the place you live, your clothes, your interests, your friends, your religion and even your partner. However, if you forgot to change your mind, attitude, beliefs about the world, how you treat people and how you plan to be different this time around, why did you even bother?”

  • “The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something is going to turn out, or how your past will affect your future, then you are finally living life free.”

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  • “Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience this problem differently?”

  • “The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.”

  • “True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.”

  • “If your love for another person doesn’t include loving yourself then your love is incomplete.”

  • “Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.”

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  • “Don’t say you don’t have enough time or enough money to change the world. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Gandhi, Michelangelo, Mother Teresa, Leonardo da Vinci and Jesus Christ.”

  • “You don’t have to say everything to be a light. Sometimes a fire built on a hill will bring interested people to your campfire.”

  • “Real women fight for something, other than their own emotions.”

  • “When you are standing in the middle of a storm you have two choices: Pray to God that it goes away. Or, start praying to God that he gives you the wisdom to figure out why you’re standing in the middle of a storm.”

  • “A wise woman knows when to stay silent. However, a wiser woman of faith knows that sometimes words can win the battle, when all odds stand against her.”

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  • “Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.”

  • “Sometimes you only get one chance to rewrite the qualities of the character you played in a person’s life story. Always take it. Never let the world read the wrong version of you.”

  • “It is not until you change your identity to match your life blueprint that you will understand why everything in the past never worked.”

  • “If you truly loved someone you won’t become their enemy. You will become their guardian angel.”

  • “Every broken heart has one time or another asked, “What is important to me now?”

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  • “Why would anyone want perfection when growth comes from flaws?”

  • “Blame doesn’t empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don’t want to be because you don’t want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life’s happiness.”

  • “Lies don’t end relationships the truth does.”

  • “Common people are often enough; that is why God made so many of them. Your job is to be— EXTRAORDINARY.”

  • “Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of their soul with you, wherever you go. This is more than some people will ever have.”

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  • “The best kind of happiness is a habit you’re passionate about.”

  • “You can find anyone that will tell you what you want to hear, but the only one worth valuing is the one that tells you what you need to learn.”

  • “Cruelty is a language that the blind can see, the deaf can hear, and the heart feels forever.”

  • “You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and let the poison take your leg. The same is true with love.”

  • “History has shown us time and time again that you don’t have to know someone to love them with all your heart.”

  • “Sometimes your belief system is really your fears attached to rules.”

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